Wednesday, January 17, 2018

trees and stuff

Since I don't have Instagram and Facebook on my phone anymore, these blog posts are pretty long. So feel free to read them in sections.

A few people are mad that I've cut them off cold turkey from my Instagram stories so here's a couple to assure you that nothing has changed...






This is a blurry pic but too cute not to post. I may have taken it while driving, eyes on the road of course. He's got his beebee and his fruck. Yeah he's pretty close to dropping f bombs all day when looking for it. Especially because he says it like... "Ffffffffruck!"


The best part about eating a giant Target pretzel is this part of course.


Addie took this. I'm not fully committed to the smile. I always plan on immediately deleting any pictures taken by the kids because they are always most unflattering but I like my expression. It's so my face all day. 


Addie's first selfie with the neighbor.


We have a master in fitness living down the street who works out in his garage and inspires our girls to become stronger...



Winter said, "Mom take a picture of me cooking." So I did. I'm not sure when she became tall enough to cook without using a chair but it happened fast.


The girls frequently go upstairs to play and come back down in costumes. 

"Super Elsa." Super power: freezing people who are being mean to her.


"Tinky Belly"


"The Queen." I'm not sure what she's the queen of...


"Miss Hawaii." 


These two laugh so much that sometimes I get frustrated because they are impossible to calm down when they get in one of their silly sister moods. But even though it rattles my nerves a little because sometimes the crazy is just too much, I secretly love it.


Twitch is getting pretty old. I think he's turning 14 in June. He's getting to the point where, if Angus hugs him, he makes old man sounds. But like human ones. Kind of like an 80 year old smoker cough.



Saturday we went on an adventure. Not really. We just went to Pasadena. But it was just the girls. Dan was down with the man cold so I left Angus with him and took the girls to Kidspace. They had a blast. They were little balls of happiness for hours. They were by far the oldest kids there. Most of the little ones were toddlers, too little to even know where they were. But my girls are so goofy and so not too cool for school they didn't even notice nor care that the place was geared toward 3-5 year olds.





We played at a park after lunch and I bought popsicles from a guy with a little ice cream cart with a bell for the first time. I've been feeling very generous lately (probably stems from mom guilt) so I bought them popsicles from the ice cream truck at the park yesterday too. Addie yelled up at the man after he handed her her popsicle, "I LIKE YOU!" so he gave her a lollipop for the road. Angus insisted on the minion popsicle which of course he refused to eat because he hates anything cold. He enjoyed seeing me eat it though.


Then they wanted to go swimming since it was so hot out. But the pool was ice cold.


I just started potty training my fourth child. The pros are: I've done this 3 times before. I have hardwood floors that are totally okay with being peed on and clean up wonderfully. Angus is very particular and likes to clean stuff and he's 2.5 years old so he should be relatively easy to potty train. 
Cons: Potty training blows. I hate potty training. I hate pee. 
Pray for me.



Have you checked out the Google photos app? It's pretty awesome for those of us who have stupid older iphones that hold like 5 photos and then get full. I have to delete my photos all the time and it's annoying to have to download them onto my computer before deleting them from my phone first. The google photos app allows me to keep them all on my phone and I don't have to download them onto the computer. (I still have to delete them from my camera but they are on the app forever) The pictures are automatically transferred to the app. It's been most helpful. And I like the filters. I feel like they are better than the iphone camera app. Instagram still wins for best filters though.


Things that made me feel like a good mom this week. There are always very few so always worth mentioning the times that I was rockin it.


1. Buying valentines a month early - flashback to last year when we went to Target on feb 13 and there were about 2 choices.



2. Remembering to bring an extra change of clothes and towel to Kidspace. Most parents there were on their first kid. But they have a stream that you are allowed to play in. I felt bad for the moms that let their kids play in it and told them not to get wet. Good luck with that one sweeties. 



3. I made dinner that everyone liked. And it only took me 20 minutes. Not too many complaints and it was all from Trader Joe’s including the "bag o salad" as Dan lines to call it. And Dan didn’t hate it that I know of. He’s come a long way from the man that would rarely accept anything from a can, bag or freezer as an acceptable dinner. 
On the menu: from the freezer - teriyaki chicken, veggie potstickers, Mexican corn (spicy). 
From the box - rice pilaf (made in the rice cooker). 
And from the bag - butter leaf lettuce with tomatoes, cucumbers and avocado. Sounds delish right?! Everyone ate a ton. But it could be because we ate late and everyone was starving. But it made me happy even so.

So, I was in Bakersfield last January and bought a bunch of children's' Christmas books that were 75% off because it was January. It was a used book store which made them about a quarter each. Then I saw this awesome idea on Pinterest where you wrap 25 Christmas books and your kids open one each night leading up to Christmas and you read them to your children. I was totally on board last year. I even wrapped about 10 books to give myself a head start. That's the trouble with Pinterest. It makes everything sound so much easier than it is. I forgot that in December I walk around in a stressed out fog and barely have enough energy to say goodnight to my kids, let alone read to them.

Of course I didn't follow through with it BUT a couple weeks into December I found those 10 wrapped books and thought, well I guess we can read a few of them... seeing as it's mid December and all. It probably won't kill me. One night we read a cute little story about an elf. The next night, Winter unwrapped another book and actually commented that it looked boring, but Mya said we should read it anyway.

The cover and title, 'My Christmas Collection, Three Favorite Stories' had me assuming I would be reading about Santa or reindeer or snowmen. I was surprised when it was actually was about Jesus. My eyes filled with tears as I read it. it was such an amazing story with an amazing message. So, I had to share. I was just going to mention that you should read it. But when someone says I should read something, I roll my eyes. So I thought I would make it super easy for you and type it out. It's okay I love typing. It's therapeutic. Also a good reason to blog. You may have already heard the story...

And of course it took me a month to actually write about it. So, pretend it's Christmas Eve while you read. Even though the story would be good any time of year.

The Legend of the Three Trees

Life burst into the world on the third day of Creation. From under the water, God brought forth the earth. Peeking up through the earth's soil, green plants waved like millions of tiny flags. Grasses, bushes, and trees grew into every size and shape.

The trees towered above all. There were pine trees and poplar, olive and oak, willow and walnut. Each held its own seeds and fruits.

Their seeds and fruits scattered as animals carried them from the trees. In a green valley, a fox dropped an olive pit. From that pit, a new olive tree with beautiful wood began to grow.

Along a rocky shoreline, a stork dropped an acorn into a deep crack. From that acorn, a great oak tree began to grow.

High on a mountainside, a clumsy goat knocked a log into a tree. The crash sent pine cones and their seeds spinning to the ground. From one of those seeds, a new pine tree began to grow.

Each of the trees had great dreams of what it would become. The olive tree hoped that its beautiful wood could become a treasure chest. Decorated with sparkling jewels, it would hold the greatest treasure in the world. The oak hoped to become a mighty ship. Strong and proud, it would carry kings and queens across the waters.

The tall, majestic pine hoped that its towering branches would remind people of the glory of God's creation. It dreamed that it would always stay on the mountain and point people to God.

Many years passed. The trees' dreams had not come true. The olive tree had become a simple manger for feeding animals. The mighty oak's wood was made into a little fishing boat. And the great pine fell in a storm and lay in a heap of old lumber But God had His own plan for each of the trees.

One night, shepherds keeping watch over their flock saw an angel. A great light shone all around. The angel told them not to be afraid, for their Savior had been born in Bethlehem. Just as the angel had said, the shepherds found the baby lying in a manger.

The olive tree had not become a treasure chest, but now, as a manger it held the greatest treasure of all time - God's only Son, Jesus.

The infant Jesus grew into a man and traveled to the very lake that held the oak fishing boat. One day, the little boat carried Jesus into the lake with the fishermen. Suddenly, a great storm swept over the lake. The oak boat struggled with all of its strength so it would not sink. "Quiet! Be still," Jesus said. The storm stopped. The oak boat felt Jesus' power. The boat had never carried a king of this world. But now it carried the King of Kings!

One day, soldiers came for the forgotten pine. From the pine's trunk, they made a cross and they placed Jesus on it. Under a blackening sky, the pine cross swayed as the soldiers raised it. The cross did not know if it could bear the weight of the man upon it. But it did.

That day, Jesus died on the cross to take away the sins of all who believe in Him. And ever since, the cross points people to God as a symbol of His great love for us.

Sometimes, the dreams that we have for ourselves are much smaller than the dreams that God has for us. The three trees' dreams came true, just not in the way they imagined. And so it is with each of us. For if we follow God's path, we will travel far beyond even our greatest dreams.

Wednesday, January 10, 2018

TIME OUT

I love my community. LOVE it. We are super blessed to have great friends that live just a few houses away. And we have an awesome neighborhood for the most part. Even our weird neighbors are pretty nice. 

The other day my weird neighbor made me laugh. I came outside to witness a pretty intense Nerf gun war between about 8 or 9 of the neighborhood kids. Winter was a part of it. It made me happy to see them all playing outside and not on ipads and tablets etc. I heard the pleasant voices and laughter from them all running around and screaming, enjoying the 75 degree January afternoon we often take for granted here in SoCal. I smiled and sipped my diet coke I refuse to give up... at least not in 2018. (Don't worry Elizabeth, I don't drink them very often) Then I heard a man's voice from down the street. "Time out!" he yelled at the kids. "I'm calling a TIME OUT!" I guess they were arguing but I didn't even notice. Maybe my arguing tolerance has gone up since 4 kids. I guess his tolerance was not as high. I smiled and waved a friendly hello. He shook his head and waved back. 

Then Angus wanted to ride his balance bike so I said sure and hopped on my razor scooter so I could keep up. Addie came out and joined in on the Nerf fight. As we passed the same neighbor, he yelled, "How is your little girl the same size as your boy? Or is that not your little girl??" I laughed and yelled back, "Yep, both mine! Genetics I guess." Who says stuff like that? haha. Neighbors. They like to keep things interesting.

So, here are the pics that made the blog this week:

Wendy has been taking the girls to Disneyland once a year for their birthdays since they turned 5. Addie is going to be crazy fun next year. Can't wait. I love this tradition because I don't really care for the place. It's crowded, there are lots of strollers and crying children and it's WAY overpriced. But I do want the kids to experience it. Mya passed it up the last two years because of her fear of people dressed up like scary Disney characters (like Minnie and Mickey). She is ready to face her fears for her 9th birthday in August. She's also no longer afraid to get her ears pierced. Brave girl, that one. 

So Wendy took Winter last week. She had a blast.







Addie impressed me the other day when she asked me if she could "make breakfast" for Angus and herself. Dry cereal. She even remembered to put the dogs outside first. Well done little one. 


This is both wonderful and horrible. Angus has started totally zoning out to YouTube videos about construction trucks and trash trucks. It's okay because they are "educational" and the kids were on Winter break all week. When all four kids are home, all good mom bets are off. I can't really take care of all of them without going insane. Someone is going to have to watch TV and it's usually the little ones. I try to take them to the park or outside a lot to balance out the rotting of the brain that the TV is causing.


The girls didn't get enough of their Christmas dresses in December so they wore them again to church Sunday. I tried to get a pic but I guess the sun was a little bright.


I used to love reading. I was a total bookworm in my early teens. It's been a couple of decades but I've rediscovered my love for it once again. There's my unfolded clean laundry on the dresser behind me. It's mostly caught up though. I'm on fire in the laundry department right now. So much so that there isn't room in anyone's drawers for all the clean clothes. And how fabulous do I look in my new readers? Very sophisticated indeed. 


Things I'm slightly obsessed with these days:

Eric Hutchinson. By far my favorite artist right now. I don't think I've heard a song I haven't liked of his. If you haven't checked him out, you totally should. I'm not really sure how mainstream he is because I haven't listened to the radio in years. I usually only listen to Amazon Radio... which brings me to my next slight obsession.

Amazon Prime comes with an app, Amazon music. It's like Spotify but it's free with Prime and there are no commercials. You can make your own playlists or download new music or chose a radio station. There are a few albums that aren't included unless you pay for the unlimited version but I am able to download most of my favorite artists and songs. Check it out if you haven't already. And if you don't have Amazon Prime... I don't know what to tell you. How did I ever live without it? I'm not sure. Amazon is taking over the world by the way.


And what am I currently reading? OUTLANDER!! Ohmagoodness the best series I've seen in a long time. I watched the first 3 seasons and loved the story so much that I started reading it. There are 7 books I think. So maybe if I keep reading, I can find out what happens in season 4 before it actually starts. It's like an 18th century Grey's Anatomy if you like that show. I have really loved reading an actual book instead of my kindle ap. I was starting to feel like I was getting brain cancer from looking at my phone so much. 


And last but certainly not least, thrift store shopping. My great love for 2nd hand items came also in my early teens when I was introduced to some of my first thrift store experiences in Hollywood by my sister Wendy. In the 90's the grunge look was born and thrifting became popular. But ever since, I've always kept an eye out for a good place for 2nd hand items. Moving to Azusa put me in super close proximity to some of the best thrift stores I've found in SoCal. Community Thrift and New Unto Others in Glendora are so organized and lovely that I could spend hours there. Especially because I shop for clothes and shoes for the whole family. Most thrift stores don't sell anything that isn't newish these days so it's not like the stuff looks used. It usually looks like it hasn't even been worn. And you can get good brands and quality stuff for just a few bucks. It satisfies my shopping urge and I rarely spend more than $30 or $40 for a big bag of clothes, shoes, purses and the occasional toy or baby doll if I bring a kid with me. Most of Angus's Christmas presents this year were from thrift stores. And a few of the girls' presents as well. It's quite an addiction of mine. 



And that's all for this week. Happy Wednesday!












Wednesday, January 3, 2018

a new year

Well, 2017 was a good year for our family all in all. I would still say that my parenting style was mostly just survival though. In 2016 I was barely keeping afloat so I think this last year was an improvement. I enjoyed the kids more, especially when school started in the fall. And Angus is slowly needing me less and less, which I am TOTALLY okay with. 

So, with a new year comes new changes for me. I want to start doing well in life. I've totally embraced the fact that with four little ones, there is no way to do it all. There's really no way to do half of it. But as they grow and need me less and I get more sleep, I feel confident that I can make some changes to improve my attitude, energy and quality of my days as a mom. And by extension improve the quality of my kids' days. 

I guess I'm pro New Year's resolutions. Why not? It's always good to improve right? First, I'm deleting Instagram and Facebook from my phone. I still have Facebook on my computer though. I do enjoy occasionally checking up on friends and family. I'm going to try putting a couple of books on my coffee table where I like to drink my coffee in the morning. Maybe one funny one and a devotional type one so I have a choice. I should probably put the bible there too. Always a good idea.

Maybe I'll dust off the old camera and take it for a spin more often. For some reason it has become a giant habit to sit on the couch with my smart phone and scroll through Instagram and Facebook and occasionally yell at my kids or take cute videos all from the comfort of my loving couch. It’s time to get up and do stuff. Time to join the gym and do my laundry everyday like a good mom. Maybe I'll empty the dishwasher in the morning and take the kids to the park after school and make an effort to catch up with friends. I know this all sounds cliche but also totally doable. 

So December is always NUTS around here. Our days are full as it is just caring for the little people. Addie's birthday is November 27 and Winter's is December 21st. We also host our annual family Christmas party. Then throw in the usual Christmas craziness like shopping, parties and decorating. I'm not really sure how I made it through honestly. The night after we hosted our Christmas party, December 23rd, Winter and I came down with the stomach flu simultaneously. Dan and I started freaking out wondering if it was food poisoning and thinking we poisoned 30 of our family members. But it was just us, luckily. Dan worked the 24th and came home Christmas morning. We were all well and able to enjoy opening presents. Good timing I guess. 

It took me a good week to recover from Christmas and start doing stuff around the house again. I've done about 10 loads of laundry in the last two days. Ugh. Laundry. I will forever hate it. I haven't taken the decorations down but will soon.

So, because I've deleted Instagram, I will have more material for the blog once again. And because I'm a giant cheeseball I like to give things names like... WAGENBRENNER WEDNESDAYS! Yep, admit it. You're already loving Wednesdays now. Or at least you will. 

So, here's a giant random post for the first Wagenbrenner Wednesday:

Black and white December is just 3 photos because of the craziness mentioned above. Surprised there are any at all. 

Praying for his mac and cheese.


OJ and boots.


Best Dad <3 


And now for the random December pics...

There are tons of toys in our house that are missing feet or heads or limbs or noses in this camel's case. Sometimes the dogs get hungry, sometimes Angus feels destructive and sometimes it's just a mystery...



Here's a typical morning about two seconds after I sit down with my coffee. Look how tired I am and how tired they are not.


Winter has been a pretty good sport about sharing her birthday month with Jesus. So far.




I hate the elves on the shelf almost as much as laundry. But I love my kids so I keep them around. I didn't put a whole lot into it this year. In fact, Mya informed me that they made toast last year too. Wups. 





Winter had a bad day so I used the elves to cheer her up in the morning. She wasn't sure if they were talking about her or the season. I told her I'm sure they were telling her they loved her.


I'm not really sure if Winter believes in Santa or the elves. So I just play along. Last year, she found out that nothing was real including the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy, thanks Mya. But she must have blocked it out. I found this letter under the tree Christmas Eve. Translation: Dear Santa, I want a baby alive and a new barbie house. When I was being good, I played with Addie. She was happy. From Winter. 

She did get a baby alive doll but no barbie house. She already has one. 



Our family Christmas party pic. 


After Christmas, we took a little trip to visit our favorite farm in Bakersfield. Mom came with. Dan worked.



Wendy loves having us there haha!


Mya is obsessed with curly hair. She got some curlers for Christmas. The spongy kind you sleep in. 


I had these little neighbors over one morning. For about 5 seconds they all sat on the coffee table and watched Elmo. 


Angus has chosen his chair at the head of the table. No one else is allowed to sit there. It was a pretty big deal that he shared with Addie.



His daughters gnawing on cow bones actually brought a tear to Dan's eye. He was so proud.



I got the brilliant (or horrible) idea to fill the water table with dirt. For some reason, I feel that little kids, especially boys, need dirt in order to have a full and happy childhood. 


Addie is four now so I've started dressing her in 4T clothes. She's still a little too small for them. But she's been in 3T forever so I'm getting tired of those clothes.



And yeah, a little weird to mention but I feel that everyone needs to know about it. Avocado oil is at Trader Joe's and I love it. It has a 500 degree smoke point so you can cook it at super high temps without it burning. And it's good for you! I've felt bad using olive oil to cook with since I found out that once it is heated up, it changes its molecular structure (or something like that) and becomes not good for you. Google it. It's true. Also avocado oil doesn't taste like avocados. It doesn't taste like anything. There. Now you know.


And while I'm being weird and random, I thought I'd mention what a life saver it has been to have a clothes line above my washer and dryer. Thanks Dan. Also, if I forget to hang something up like a collared shirt, I can just spray it and smooth it out after it has already been dried. So smart. 


Our family sock pile. Going to tackle that one soon. 


Well there you have it. Our December in a nutshell. See ya next Wednesday! 



















Friday, December 1, 2017

black and white november

Sister selfie.


5:45 AM lego session. Compliments of Daylight savings. This lasted about 5 minutes before the screaming started. Mya and Winter usually take a long time building amazing lego castles and Addie and Angus usually take a short time destroying them.


It's so nice having older siblings so I don't have to chase after the littles in the church parking lot every Sunday.


Having a serious conversation about Peppa Pig with Addie on the curb.


Early morning kitchen huddle. Mya is rarely wearing clothes in the morning. She starts out in jammies but she's on the top bunk so throughout the night she strips it all off and usually winds up in her underwear. 


Cousins came to visit! Angus is like, too many girls. I'm out.